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Frequently Asked Questions
Any delay is not progress – it is,in fact, going backwards – everything moves forward and so should you.
A decision is not progress – taking an action is.
Waiting, hoping for a better time, better conditions, circumstances, more money, and more opportunities are not going to change things. Changing YOU will be a great start – why? Because you impact everything around you – because you have the power to create – you may not know it… – it doesn`t mean it is not there…
YOU DO NOT WAIT… – YOU DO, AND THEN, WAIT
Planning, and thinking, overthinking is not going to change your situation – taking action will.
Waiting for the perfect time, perfect circumstances, when you are “ready” – IT DOES NOT PROTECT YOU FROM UNCOMFORTABLE FEELINGS OR FROM EXPERIENCING FAILURE!!!!
It actually paralyses you, stops you from acting, and keeps you stuck in the same place – sometimes for YEARS!!!
It is never a money problem – it is a mindset problem
Empowering beliefs – for a change…
Many people have money, there is plenty of money – everywhere! (you need to use your mindset to get it)
People will pay me for my help and support, for solving their problem
I am an expert and I am still learning, growing and creating myself
MONEY IS NOT EVIL – Money is what you do with it – can be good and most of the time … is.
Lack of money is the root of a lot of evil
Being humble, safe, being poor is not an “honour” or “an obligation” – it is conditioning that is keeping you poor
What is it going to cost me not to do it? – the cost of not adapting, not growing, not improving? Do you really want to pay in this way…?
Not mastering your mindset will not make you great at your job.
Not controlling your emotions will not make you keep the job.
(You may struggle with: focus, priorities, communication, connection, delegation… and mental well-being will inevitably deteriorate) Stress, overwhelm, burnout, anxiety, and intense worry are the most likely symptoms
The mind of an employee – you count the losses, how much you spend, how much you lose
The mind of an entrepreneur and a creator – looking for investing in opportunities, and possibilities and growing them
– not only looking at what your mind perceives is possible – new opportunities and possibilities are usually outside of your mind, and they have to be made visible to your mind by asking the right questions- through non-linear thinking.
Stop counting how much you are going to lose, start counting how much you are going to gain (what your mind does not see yet…) not an easy thing to do…
How will you monetise your unique talent without developing it first? It includes your energy, your emotions and your mindset.
A place to create and express your energy, your emotions and your mind – your inner space: mental, emotional and spiritual
You will create your spaces and have your spiritual, emotional and mental boundaries.
Without spaces… you do not really own any energy – you may have nothing to exchange- how will you exchange your energy for money?
The more and the faster you fail, the sooner you will master the skill – you will be able to ask for more money, too.
Money comes from people – if you don`t understand people if you cannot read people`s energy, read and “stir” their emotions in the right way – if you don`t understand their mindset – how are you going to get any money from them?
How are you going to keep your job?
Oh…, right…! – ROI… about that…
ROI – the return of identity – that has been stolen from you, conditioned out of you.
Or… Rescued Obliterated Identity.
Your mindset is either losing or making you money… – which one has been the case for you so far?
Make your mindset ready to make you money – there really is no way around it. There are only many ways to do it…
If you worry about what other people will say, you are imposing their limits on yourself – if you listen to what they have to say too much…
You are trying to fit into their framework, fall into their spot/place/space in the puzzle…
Other people do not have:
– your agenda
– your experiences
– your position
– your circumstances
– your unique set of skills and abilities
Some might just be expressing their jealousy.
So… why do you want to be like them?
If you pursue what is meant for you…
You will be perceived as successful, much stronger than others, more confident, and more powerful.
People will be looking up to you.
You will be smarter, wealthier and healthier than most people around you.
You will develop strong but flexible boundaries – naturally – following directives from others is adapting someone else`s agenda and having their boundaries.
You will create your spaces and have your spiritual, emotional and mental boundaries – people without boundaries are highly likely to become a burden at some point. You don`t want that.
Without these you do not own any energy – you will have nothing left to exchange – what will people say then?
To serve and give – you need to first develop and learn how to receive!!!!
It is hard to see that you are drowning when you are trying to be a lifeboat for everyone around you… – you have to build a warship – not a ship – a warship!
ROI – the return of identity – that has been stolen from you…
Rescued Obliterated Identity
Better, more powerful and higher vibrating energy, more attractive, positive, irresistible and unstoppable.
More control of your focus – more time and more inner space.
It is for any soul – for any energy – you are the energy 99, 99999 %
No one has any answer for you, nobody knows you as well as you do, and no one will be able to do anything for you – you have all the answers IN YOU and you are in charge of your energy – nobody else.
You know what you need to know, you have the power and the resources you need – you need to access them and use them.
You have been on autopilot – time to co-pilot! You are not exactly a creator – you are a co-creator.
You probably need more spaces: all types – mental, emotional, spiritual, social, physical and financial.
You need to trust your body as it is your antenna.
You need to align your energy with your body and your mind – energy has to be purified. You should remove any limiting beliefs and cognitive distortions, biases, imbalances or inconsistencies.
You are disconnected from the power of inner resources and your inner superpowers – that is why you think that you don`t have what it takes to succeed.
You probably have many unmet needs.
You probably do not have the best environment/core conditions.
You need to change your environment – but you have to change your inside first, if you cannot change your environment – your “inside” will manifest – taking action is critical.
All of that can only be done only by you – nobody else can do it for you.
Can I do it? – should be replaced by: what am I capable of? let`s find out…
Can I do it? – it is not for your mind to answer – you are much more than your mindset – you are energy – 99, 9999 % – you don`t know your body that well either.. – none of us really do…
You do not really do the work… your inner sphere does the work, your main task is to allow your true Self to do it – to express it, to listen to it… – one caveat though: you need to purify your energy first…
Your time is your focus: your energy is your focus – your emotions are your focus, and your thoughts are your focus
How about….?
Overthinking time… Worrying time… Fantasising time… (daydreaming time)
Space is time – spaces for yourself – you need to make time. There is no space without time, there is no time without space. Time is a by-product of space and movement (so- called action).
By creating space and taking action we create time for what we were meant to create an opportunity to be who we were meant to be.
If you don`t make time to address your inner sphere issues you will spend a lot of time dealing with the inner sphere you do not want – soon!
If you don`t prioritise making the time, the time, most certainly, will not prioritise you. Creating time for Self is not a sign of luxury, it is not a privilege or selfishness. It is simply a critical necessity for us to exist in the way we want to and the way we were meant to.
I did not have time for myself because I thought it was a waste of time as I did not see the results…
“I simply don`t have time” is also saying, loud and clear:
I did not take care of my energy – invisible, abstract non – existent… do not care about it, really… it is not my priority.
I did not develop my identity… and I don`t know how…
I did not develop my space… and I don`t know how…
Many people even DO NOT EVEN KNOW THAT THEY NEED TO DEVELOP AN IDENTITY!
I do not waste my time… – I wasted my energy, my identity, I lost my identity, my spaces in the past…
It is ok to give your energy (to transform it) – you have to focus on Self first – you have to know where your focus is. You have full control over were your energy goes.
To serve and give – you need to first develop and learn how to receive!!!! No one tells you that!
Focus means boundaries- you need them – time is focus, focus means boundaries – boundaries mean spaces – spaces mean your energy – your identity.
You were given the time to discover who you are – who and what you really are – don`t waste it for learning that you are not somebody else`s expectations, focus and attention – time is yours, don`t give it all away – give yourself time first!
A great question to ask: Who will prioritise you… if you don’t…?
The trouble with putting people first is that you teach them that you come last…
Time is money as well – don`t forget – in that sense time can be changed/transformed into other types of energies. The choice is yours.
Pressure, challenges and adversities create value, satisfaction, a sense of worth and belonging, shape our skills and talents, they make us stronger, smarter and more aware. Unfortunately for many it also can create a strong resistance…
Our fear is also our strong resistance to who we do not want to be…
Pressure can produce incredible feelings like those but only when you decide to go against it and let it shape you!
If you don`t go against your resistance, you are giving up the opportunity to learn, grow, expand, get bigger, better, and smarter – it is highly unlikely that you will become someone you were meant to be.
Change breeds change (chance for progress and growth) – resistance to change breeds, most typically, creates more of the same – choose wisely.
The biggest resistance is created by your mindset if it is limited and in total control of your decisions, actions and habits. It will defend, resist, block any new information that is not consistent with the current set of beliefs that exist in the mindset. It will dismiss it as not true and it will then create scenarios where it can, perhaps, possibly… be true, or excuses, reasons and explain why exactly it is not true… it is, after all… a very sphisticated machine…
This is YOU vs YOU – kind of situation…
You will move forward in time – you can resist… but that will only keep you where you are!
The resistance is most likely caused by our mindset, in particular: cognitive distortions, energy blockages, and limiting beliefs created in our early childhood.
Resistance is preventing you from growing, practising, growing, developing skills – growth is the biggest law of the universe after existence.
The most successful people have taken the pressure on and allowed the pressure to make them, shape them – you have to trust it as it is a very big and difficult task…
You need to read the pressure well and adapt and change as you go through it.
If you feel small and not good enough or unskilled, it is likely because you have resisted the pressure to grow so far – it was meant to make you stronger, better, more capable, more qualified and more experienced. Instead – it made you into someone you do not really want to be – causing you a lot of pain…
You think that the pressure is extremely bad for you and if you resist that pressure, you are simply protecting yourself, if you resist – you will be ok. Nothing could be further from the truth… – we are forced to resist that pressure, but we can take on that pressure when it is relatively weak – when it grows too big it is likely to destroy us.
If you resist the pressure – you are not creating – you are reacting – you will, most likely, not create the future you want, but the future shaped by your resistance.Not exactly where you want to be…
It will be very unlikely for you to create, materialise future Self – the person you were meant to be, have things you were meant to have and feel the way you were meant to feel – you will not find out who you were meant to be, what you were meant to have or experience
In a few years or a decade later .. it will be you, only older- sometimes: much, much older. Most people are very small children in their adult bodies.
Energy influences and impacts your body and your internal well-being- it is 99,9999 % of you. If you don`t manage it and control at least it to a degree… – you don`t have any control over your mindset and negative energy in your energy field will cause physical symptoms: illness, pain etc.
The trick here is that the resistance looks and feels like “protection”- why would you want to feel uncomfortable, why would you make an effort if you don`t know the outcome…
The truth is we don`t know much about the future. We manifest it unconsciously and without intentions that are good for us. It`s time to change that.
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